These are worth reading! Elana Katz is a dear friend and teacher. http://www.nytimes.com/2011/07/21/nyregion/elana-katz-makes-divorce-less-adversarial.html?_r=1&scp=1&sq=elana%20katz&st=cse
And this article from the Wall St. Journal is personal, yet it applies to what so many divorced couples go through. http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702303544604576430341393583056.html